My journey to mindful parenting
Welcome! If you’ve made it to our site, I can already tell that you’re a wonderful parent simply because you are actively thinking about parenting strategies, including what mindful parenting could mean for your family. I’d love to share with you a bit about my professional and personal journey, so that you can get to know me and also gain a sense of the work we might be able to do together. I was born and raised in North Carolina as a child of Indian immigrant parents (hi Kala and Vimal!). Navigating and blending multiple cultures has always fascinated me and perhaps it is no surprise that I majored in International Studies at university and lived in several countries over the years including Cuba, India, Tanzania, and Switzerland (where I am based now).
When I joined medical school in Baltimore nearly 20 years ago, I had no idea I would end up focusing on child development and parenting. But much of life is like that isn’t it? We can never fully know our paths ahead of time, and yet, looking back we can see some things were over-determined or simply put, meant to be.

Over the course of my training, I felt my heart most pulled towards psychiatry and the exciting intellectual explosion that the field was experiencing at the time, particularly in the neuroscience of mindfulness. (It was, in fact, yoga and meditation that helped me stay afloat in medical school – and now there was a growing body of research on how mindfulness practices benefit us!) I became very interested in the brain-body connection and its societal relevance and took a break from the clinical world after medical school (between 2010 and 2012) to explore this and seek experiences in public health.
In 2012, I started my psychiatry residency training at the Massachusetts General Hospital and McLean Hospital in Boston, Massachusetts. Over the next seven years, I deepened my understanding of the brain-body connection as I worked with people facing dual crises (in mental and physical health) at our hospital. My clinical experiences were given powerful context with academic mentorship from the pre-eminent evolutionary neuropsychiatrist Gregory Fricchione, to whom I am eternally grateful. It was during this time that I began to really understand the connections between early life experiences, brain development, brain-body stress physiology, and our propensity for well-being (or health conditions) later in life. I would solidify these connections as I became involved in various public health collaborations, including a University of Exeter and WHO Collaborating Center-funded project focused on early life trauma and resiliency in Eastern Europe. I also regularly consulted for the WHO’s Department of Mental Health and Substance Use, eventually joining their inaugural Brain Health Unit in Geneva, Switzerland in 2020 and leading the position paper “Optimizing Brain Health Across the Life Course.”
Though I initially moved to Switzerland for work (which I loved), I ended up staying for my husband and our young family (whom I love infinitely more)! I think many people can relate to the experience that their lives completely change the moment they become a parent. That certainly was the case for me, and all of a sudden everything I had been drawn to intellectually about brain development, adversity, resilience, and the brain-body connection held more depth, meaning, and purpose. There was theory, and then there was practice (this is also where I’ve eaten quite a lot of humble pie)! I found the theory so fascinating, and yet it was no replacement for consistent, honest practice within myself and for our family. There is perhaps no experience more humbling than becoming a parent, and also few experiences more motivating for ego-busting and self-reflection. Practicing mindfulness (and grace) has been an invaluable aspect of my parenting journey and incredibly rewarding. It is my honor and deepest passion to share my experiences through the Lotus Parenting Approach and support you as you raise healthy, secure, and resilient children in your home!
I so look forward to working with you,
Kavitha Porchet
The skillset I bring to my work with parents
My medical and public health education
A practical methodology based on the neuroscience of child development, attachment, and mindfulness
My own experiences as a learning mom
Empathy, non-judgement, trauma-informed, and cultural sensitivity
Diverse experience with online group facilitation
In our work together, you can expect a holistic and integrated approach drawing on this diverse education and training, rooted in practical cross-cultural experiences. I look forward to supporting you in your mindful parenting journey!
Professional Background
The following highlights key milestones in Dr. Porchet’s academic training and career, offering context for the professional expertise she brings to her work with parents.
Medical Doctor
Public Health Expert
Psychiatrist
Clinical Fellow
Technical Intern
2023 – Ongoing
2018 – 2022
2018-2019
2012 -2017
201 – 2011
Education



Master Public Health
MD
Bachelor of Arts
2011 – 2012
2016 – 2012
2001 – 2005
Lotus Parenting Publications
Other Relevant Publications
Kolappa, K., Seeher, K., & Dua, T. (2022). Brain health as a global priority. Journal of the Neurological Sciences, 439, 120326.
Llosa, A., Van Ommeren, M., Kolappa, K., Ghantous, Z., Souza, R., & Grais, R. F. (2017). A two-phase approach for the identification of refugees with priority need for mental health care in Lebanon: A validation study. BMC Psychiatry, 17(1), 28.
Kolappa, K., Henderson, D. C., & Kishore, S. P. (2013). No physical health without mental health: lessons unlearned? Bulletin of the World Health Organization, 91(1), 3-3A.
Hock, R. S., Or, F., Kolappa, K., Burkey, M. D., Surkan, P. J., & Eaton, W. W. (2012). A new resolution for global mental health. The Lancet, 379(9824), 1367-1368